Thursday, April 2, 2009

Are You a Loser? What To Do If You're One

Question:

I'm a loser, what can I do?

Quirky Answer:

I'm so sorry to hear that, Sweetheart. You just said you're a loser, there is nothing you could do. There is nothing I could do either. Losers are losers. They do only one thing-they LOSE. It's like they were destined to lose the moment they were born!( talking about destiny).

Losers don't learn anything, it's no use trying to help them. Losers won't believe in themselves anyway, so how could they believe somebody else?

Losers are victims. They are not willing to rise and prove their worth. They get themselves bullied. They believe they are ugly. (For the record, there is a distinct difference between being ugly and being a loser. We'll try to cover that in future posts).

So now, where were we? Oh yeah, we're with the loser. What? You're the loser? I can't believe I've been talking to you. I mean, how much of my precious time have you wasted already?

Hmm... maybe there's still hope for you, after all. I talked to you, didn't I? I don't talk to losers. I talk only to winners, and to people who don't know yet the winner within them. Maybe you're one of those. Either you're a winner, or you just don't know it yet!

Winners search for answers. They may cry. They may get frustrated. But deep within them, they feel it's wrong to just give up. They feel bad because they know they aren't on the right path yet. Winners don't even need to be perfect. Only losers think that perfection is the goal. Winners are human beings who have a healthy sense of themselves, are happy to be human and are not ashamed to cry and to get frustrated at times. So what's our problem here again about losers?

30 comments:

  1. I think I'm a huge loser. No matter how hard I try, there's always someone better than me. I've had about 3-4 chances for glory and renown in my life so far and have always fallen far below the rest. I do not even have ONE good moment to hang on to. My life sucks. :,-(

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    1. I feel the same way

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  2. I know what you mean...I'm the biggest loser I know.

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  3. I don't need anyone else whatsoever. I only depend on my self, I am independent of everyone around me for my happiness. That makes me a winner!!

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  4. i fucked my friends mom so that i could feel like a winner...

    i still feel bad, she was alrite though...

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  5. what do you do when you lose self-belief? get it back again? i've fucked up so many times that no one believes i can do shit anymore.

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  6. Win and Loss are the parts of our life. I will say that "we have boldness of looseness" then we loss nothing!
    Coaching Advice

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  7. Everything i have tried to be or wanted to be...there are so many things i wanted to be but if i became either 1 of those things would my life be different? Would i be any happier? My first dream was to play pro basketball, I was good but i couldn't play district level it costs $$$ and I was ashamed because i was poor and had no cool clothes. Would i be here commenting say if i had made it as a professional basketballer? What if i made it i wanted to buy my mum a house that was the other dream. I'm 30 i have an ok job a beautiful baby girl and a fantastic beatutiful woman in my life i'm doin ok i'm happy and love my family but i'm not good at showing it. I go off in my own world and thats when i wonder about lots of things it sucks but i can't help it. I'm not the person i want to be because i feel shame all the time because i focus on so much i haven't acheieved that i really wanted to. Anyway i feel like a loser because i can't show my true colours when i should in any form. I can't even talk to my old man about our past because i feel ashamed about it. I'm always trying to please everyone in the only ways i know and not how i should. When i can't please everyone i feel like a loser. If i don't wash the dishes straight away i tidy up when i should i feel like a loser. When i cant show my woman affection i tell when she needs a hug i feel like a loser. Soemtimes its not worth waking up. But then how will i know if things won't get better or that i might have a good day? I guess tomorrow i'll find out.

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  8. Oh I'm a big loser. I love how pathetic my life is. Its like the freinds theme song. I am 25, divorced, live with my parents and can barely hang on to a job, in major debt....oh ya and I have not one friend in the world except a few fake freinds. I am hot, though, so I can attract men but I suck at relationships and it goes bad. I don't believe that my life is always going to suck like this. I some how talked my way into a dream job. Keeping it is another story. I have been knocked down so many times...but there is this voice that says get up ...yes you can. I did do something good once... I saved a person who was choking to death. SO many people are just like us losers. Your not alone. I believe in you. I love you. And Everything is going to be OK. Sometimes we have to suffer through the pain of today to reap the pleasures of tommorow. Have faith...Keep your chin or chins in some cases up. Your going to be ok. Just know that this loser....who by the way looks alot like angelina Joli thinks your special.

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  9. You a loser? STFU NO ONE IS A LOSER IF YOU ARE THEN TRY HARDER IF STILL CANT THEN TRY HARDER THEN BEFORE YOU GET BULLIED?TAKE KUNG FU LESSONS
    WEAKER THEN THEM? THEN WORK OUT MORE. HOW COME THEY CAN WHY NOT YOU YOU ARE HUMAN TOO
    YOU SUCK AT RELATIONSHIPS? THEN LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES CANT LEARM EM? THEN! LEARN HARDER!CANT REACH YOUR GOAL? then.Try..H A R D E R STILL CANT? THEN TRY SUPER HARD TRY 5x HARDER THEN OTHERS ty :)

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  10. I just got 12% on a loser test; that means that 88% of those that have taken it before me were better(cooler) and only 12% were more of a loser than me! Oh boy!

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  11. This website is stupid. who ever made it is a Loser!

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  12. I'm a huge loser. My stupidity is overwhelming, and when others see it, it keeps them away. I do not have any friends at all. My family won't even show me respect. At times like this, I never know what to do. I just quit. I feel that I was destined for failure. People like me aren't meant to go far in life. It's just not in the laws of how things function in this world. The toughest thing is learning how to accept it and deal with it. It makes life not worth living.

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  13. Oh I get it now. It's all so simple. I just have to say I'm a potential winner that doesn't know it yet and all those feelings of insecurity, low self-esteem and worthlessness that have plagued me my entire life will vanish.

    If only I had thought of that before.

    Good thing all those ads are making you some money, because the content of this website is worthless.

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  14. i'm a looser nobody wants me i fail in everything i do i am fat i have no money the most perfect guy i have ever met doesnt want me my family accuses me of my fathers death i just want to kill myself im tired of living
    ps and i have no friends

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  15. im a looser too. dont kill yourself. there are lots of loosers out there. just laugh at it because it is funny. winners need loosers. without loosers there would be no winners.

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  16. We are all going to be dead soon, so you might as well be happy today!

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  17. i excel only at the beginning then i start to mess up as time goes by. because of that, i never finished anything. what should i do?

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  18. You can't have winners without losers. Some one somewhere will draw the short straw and not even have the courage or determination to escape the joke of probability. Got to love the lottery!

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  19. THIS SITE IS RIDICULOUS. full of insecure people who have just GOOGLED a way out of being a 'loser'. no one is a loser or winner, medal or not. if you are upset with yourself, get off your butt and do something about it. fight back that crap feeling, fight back all these crappy people with their crappy comments up here. no hate, im just saying you ALL SOUND SO DESPERATE for love and something other than criticism. if you want me to go there, you "winners" sound like the losers. im a "loser" supporter if it means being yourself, an oddball or freakshow. show those people who don't like you what its like to LIVE!!!

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  20. hey i read the above and it makes sense, i did feel i was worth something once ? its not really what i think its what i see in others, and what others say, just indirect smartass comments, iv never done drugs im clean and decent looking, good luck with the rest of you

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  21. I'm a winner. I can do it. I'm a winner. I can do it.

    What fire stavi, NOOOO!

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  22. i'm a loser,i can't even provide for my kids properly and piss them off, always say the wrong thing and to top it i'm fat and ugly.

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  23. I'm a 30 year old loser. I spent 8 years and almost all of my 20's in a PhD program without completing it. I pray that I can leave with a Masters and find a job I can tolerate with it.

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  24. -34
    -job that barely requires a high school diploma, yet I have an associates and a bachlors. (terrible at interviews)
    -no girlfriend
    -18 yr old rustbucket of a car.
    +live on my own, but can barely afford it
    -live in a crappy town
    -over an hour commute to my crappy job
    -no motivaion
    -no good friends, a handful of crappy ones

    There's my stats. I need a new life.

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  25. Not only do I feel I'm a loser but I've had people who I thought were friends tell me 'I like having a friend like you; it reminds me of what sort of loser I don't want to be. Who would want to be like you'. As for ugly, there too I've been told you'll never find a job, you're too ugly. I've been told someone as ugly as you should only be allowed out at night. I've failed at everything I've tried; not entirely failed but I'm not good at anything either. There's nothing memorable about me. If I don't show up someplace people don't miss me. I have no friends; people who do know me won't acknowledge me if they're with someone else. As one person put it 'I don't want my friends to know I know someone like you; I'm known for hanging around smart and attractive people and you don't qualify as either'. This is only a sample of what I've been told over the years, how can I NOT feel like a worthless loser! I've even told my family when I die not to bother with a funeral when I die since no one will care and since I don't live near them (different states) they've also already told me that when I die they won't be attending my funeral since it's too far for them to travel. Nope being a loser isn't my imagination; it's something I'm reminded of over and over again by everyone and their brother. Complete strangers have no trouble telling me how worthless I am, my family and so called friends have agreed. The only thing that makes me stand out is how ugly and stupid I am. I've tried the positive thinking, I've tried various projects to see if I'm good at anything; total waste. Not good at anything and every time I try to be positive someone is waiting to tell me how stupid I am and how ugly I am and how worthless I am.

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  26. TO ALL YOU UGLY PEOPLE, discrimination is a heavy issue and i know. I have racoon eyes and have people laugh in my face on a regular basis. what am i going to do about it? im going to go to college, become a diesel mechanic,make tons of money. SHOVE IT IN AS MANY FACES AS I FUCKING CAN AND BURN MY PARENTS HOUSE TO THE FUCKING GROUND!!!...well mayb no burning part, cuz i would replace it with something better -.- BUT SOMETHING EQUALLY DISCOURAGING!! if you want to rant about how life sucks, email me. Ill respond. verymadeup@hotmail.com

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  27. well ugly losers serves you right for choosing me, of all the people in the world, to pick on. HAHA HA HAHA you all suck.

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  28. I sometimes feel like I am no one and don't know why Im in this world since I don't go anywhere or do anything but be home. I only go out to stores and to school and nowhere else to have fun, its not because I don't want to or can't, I just don't know how to interact with people outside since I never really had a conversation with anyone before except my parents and siblings.

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  29. I have done good things in life and been succesfull also....but recently every thing seems to go wrong....watever I am trying I am failing....not able to get out of it ....pls help

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