I'm a loser, what can I do?
I'm so sorry to hear that, Sweetheart. You just said you're a loser, there is nothing you could do. There is nothing I could do either. Losers are losers. They do only one thing-they LOSE. It's like they were destined to lose the moment they were born!( talking about destiny).
Losers don't learn anything, it's no use trying to help them. Losers won't believe in themselves anyway, so how could they believe somebody else?
Losers are victims. They are not willing to rise and prove their worth. They get themselves bullied. They believe they are ugly. (For the record, there is a distinct difference between being ugly and being a loser. We'll try to cover that in future posts).
So now, where were we? Oh yeah, we're with the loser. What? You're the loser? I can't believe I've been talking to you. I mean, how much of my precious time have you wasted already?
Hmm... maybe there's still hope for you, after all. I talked to you, didn't I? I don't talk to losers. I talk only to winners, and to people who don't know yet the winner within them. Maybe you're one of those. Either you're a winner, or you just don't know it yet!
Winners search for answers. They may cry. They may get frustrated. But deep within them, they feel it's wrong to just give up. They feel bad because they know they aren't on the right path yet. Winners don't even need to be perfect. Only losers think that perfection is the goal. Winners are human beings who have a healthy sense of themselves, are happy to be human and are not ashamed to cry and to get frustrated at times. So what's our problem here again about losers?